Author | Post |
---|
whoanelly Member
Joined: | Mar 21st, 2006 |
Location: | |
Posts: | 12 |
Status: |
Offline
|
Mana: | |
|
Posted: Oct 7th, 2006 02:43 am |
|
A letter was sent home by the Stokesdale principal with a list of "don'ts" that parents and teachers are to abide for classroom celebrations.
Trying to stay in line with political correctness, the principal has once again gone too far in her commands.
Instead of celebrating and sharing our differences, we are only allowed to celebrate with snowmen. There was a beautiful Winter Concert last year by the music teacher that celebrated many of the winter holidays, including Kwanza, Hanakah and Christmas.
While I am on this topic, another offensive statement came from the principal earlier this year. Parents who have a change of plans in transportation for their children during the day or fail to send a note alerting the staff know that their child will be dismissed early may face being called in to the principal's office.
GCS states that all schools tend not to celebrate traditional Christian holidays. I don't think that is or was the issue.
The issue is and will remain inclusion; not exclusion. Ms. Williams thinks that by celebrating with angels or holly, red or green; we may exclude some children that may not celebrate "Christmas". Perhaps a walk through classrooms to observe pictures of Menorahs and trees side by side is a more inclusive approach instead of eliminating all traces of traditional celebrations.
We are moving towards a totalarian government at Stokesdale Elementary and it must stop.
When leadership voted on this topic, I don't believe that they meant to exclude every thing important to people. I believe that they voted to assure that each holiday was treated with respect for all cultures and religions.
I would appreciate others thoughts on this issue.
|
Cracker Jax Member
Joined: | Oct 23rd, 2005 |
Location: | Summerfield, USA |
Posts: | 4722 |
Status: |
Offline
|
Mana: | |
|
Posted: Oct 7th, 2006 03:21 am |
|
Howdy whoanelly.
Stokesdale's PTA president, Vicki White-Lawrence, commented on this over on the "Reflections on Dr. Grier and the school board" forum if you haven't seen it already. She gives insight as to why this decision was made.
As far as I know, we (Summerfieldians) can have parties, but we have to serve tofu and grapenuts .
To my knowledge, our teachers have never gone into depth and discussed any specific Christian beliefs though the parties are centered around the Christian holidays.
Usually before winter break, an entire week is dedicated to the introduction of different cultural celebrations in the classes we've been in with the intent to make children more TOLERANT of the differences in our world- sort of like what your Music teacher did.
I feel that this is a wonderful way to teach kids to be tolerant and respectful of others beliefs. It also goes a long way in the battle against prejudice and racism and we are taking steps backward if we remove these lessons.
I know people think parents should teach this at home, but sometimes the parents themselves might not know enough about other's beliefs or they weren't taught to have respect for those beliefs. They might have reached children who aren't lucky enough to have open minded parents. Last edited on Oct 7th, 2006 03:25 am by Cracker Jax
____________________ Opinions in this post are mine. Do not copy, distribute, mass mail or quote out of context without my consent.
|
Starcatchr Member
Joined: | Nov 3rd, 2005 |
Location: | |
Posts: | 205 |
Status: |
Offline
|
Mana: | |
|
Posted: Oct 7th, 2006 03:23 am |
|
Whoanelly,what an interesting approach! There is a book titled Holidays Around the World and one called (not sure of exact title) Religious Holidays for Children. Every school should own one or more books like these. Last edited on Oct 7th, 2006 03:32 am by Starcatchr
|
Cracker Jax Member
Joined: | Oct 23rd, 2005 |
Location: | Summerfield, USA |
Posts: | 4722 |
Status: |
Offline
|
Mana: | |
|
Posted: Oct 8th, 2006 01:30 am |
|
whoanelly wrote: While I am on this topic, another offensive statement came from the principal earlier this year. Parents who have a change of plans in transportation for their children during the day or fail to send a note alerting the staff know that their child will be dismissed early may face being called in to the principal's office.
I'm not sure I understand this statement whoanelly....and I forgot to comment on it last night.
Who gets called to the principal's office if the parent doesn't send a note?
____________________ Opinions in this post are mine. Do not copy, distribute, mass mail or quote out of context without my consent.
|
whoanelly Member
Joined: | Mar 21st, 2006 |
Location: | |
Posts: | 12 |
Status: |
Offline
|
Mana: | |
|
Posted: Oct 8th, 2006 02:57 am |
|
If I remember the bulletin correctly, the parents will be asked to come to the office for a meeting with the principal if the rules aren't followed.
This is her second year and she doesn't seem to be making many friends with her policies.
I have a student at the middle school and they have always asked for parents to write notes so that class will not be interupted. Notes to alert the staff are a great thing! I have no problem with pre-planning and writing notes. But to threaten reprimands before a problem has even begun seems a bit overkill in my opinion.
Many parents feel like they are treated like subordinates. The notes that continue to come home confirm to me that their feelings are justified.
|
DToney Member
|
Posted: Oct 9th, 2006 01:06 am |
|
whoanelly wrote: If I remember the bulletin correctly, the parents will be asked to come to the office for a meeting with the principal if the rules aren't followed.
This is her second year and she doesn't seem to be making many friends with her policies.
I have a student at the middle school and they have always asked for parents to write notes so that class will not be interupted. Notes to alert the staff are a great thing! I have no problem with pre-planning and writing notes. But to threaten reprimands before a problem has even begun seems a bit overkill in my opinion.
Many parents feel like they are treated like subordinates. The notes that continue to come home confirm to me that their feelings are justified.
so is she not a parent or is it that her family has never had an emergency? seems like there is a lack of understanding on her part...
____________________ I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that don't work. - Thomas Edison
|
macca Member
|
Posted: Oct 9th, 2006 01:33 am |
|
I haven't had this happen to me, but I have been in the office when someone shows up to pick up a child and that person isn't on the list of authorized people. I've seen the secretary there make all kinds of calls to get in touch with someone who IS authorized to explain to them that she cannot just release their child to this person. She tries to explain that she is just following Guilford County Schools policy and that it is her responsibility to make sure the person who has shown up really is ok to pick up this child. I've been impressed that staff takes their responsibility to protect the children so seriously. I'd certainly want them to be that careful with my little ones!!! ♥♥♥
____________________ A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort. Herm Albright
|
whoanelly Member
Joined: | Mar 21st, 2006 |
Location: | |
Posts: | 12 |
Status: |
Offline
|
Mana: | |
|
Posted: Oct 9th, 2006 02:10 am |
|
Absolutely that is what Mrs. Knight should do! No unauthorized person should ever be allowed to waltz up there and take a child! Go Gail!
BUT, What if a parent comes to pick up their child early for whatever reason without a note? Do they get lectured?
I know that I have forgotten about a drs. appointment and had to run up and pull my child out of school without prior notification. Heaven forbid me forget more than once! Hopefully, the warning was just a lot of hot air, but it leaves me hot under the collar!
|
Cracker Jax Member
Joined: | Oct 23rd, 2005 |
Location: | Summerfield, USA |
Posts: | 4722 |
Status: |
Offline
|
Mana: | |
|
Posted: Oct 9th, 2006 02:11 am |
|
I've even seen cases where ex-spouses for instance didn't have rights to pick up a child and tried to get to them at school.
I'd much rather be safe than sorry.
If we ever have a change of transportation, I'll usually call the school and fax a note.
____________________ Opinions in this post are mine. Do not copy, distribute, mass mail or quote out of context without my consent.
|
whoanelly Member
Joined: | Mar 21st, 2006 |
Location: | |
Posts: | 12 |
Status: |
Offline
|
Mana: | |
|
Posted: Oct 9th, 2006 02:13 am |
|
I should clarify that the note with the lists of no nos came from the first grade teachers, but states that the policies come from the principal and the leadership team.
|
Cracker Jax Member
Joined: | Oct 23rd, 2005 |
Location: | Summerfield, USA |
Posts: | 4722 |
Status: |
Offline
|
Mana: | |
|
Posted: Oct 9th, 2006 02:19 am |
|
whoanelly wrote: BUT, What if a parent comes to pick up their child early for whatever reason without a note? Do they get lectured?
We were posting at the same time nelly....
I didn't see the note, but if that was the jist of it, I can see why you're huffy about it. Surely that wouldn't happen. They might try to lecture me - once.
Perhaps the principal just lacks communication skills and can't get her point across very well.
____________________ Opinions in this post are mine. Do not copy, distribute, mass mail or quote out of context without my consent.
|
blessingsalways2u Member
|
Posted: Oct 9th, 2006 03:06 am |
|
Hi Group,
I dont have little ones at home anymore, but when my kids were in school (granted we were in another state) the parents were the decision makers of how schools were run. The more I hear from parents about public schools the more I understand why so many parents home school. I come from a state where homeschooling in not as common as is here.
I cannot believe the way some schools are run and the way parents are treated? Are these not our children and our taxes that pay these teachers and administrators salaries?
When our children are in these schools more than they are home and they are being influenced and molded by what they see and hear in school, it seems to me that parents should have more say about what their children are getting during their time at school?
I send all of the parents out there with young children my compassion, empathy and prayers.
Blessings to you all
|
kidwell Member
Joined: | Oct 16th, 2006 |
Location: | Stokesdale |
Posts: | 8 |
Status: |
Offline
|
Mana: | |
|
Posted: Oct 16th, 2006 11:07 pm |
|
Hey everyone,
Did anyone else think of the fact that we are sent home a fundraiser within the first month of school...Well the inside of that catalog is full of Christmas stuff, plenty of red and green, santas, snowmen, angels , etc...Now let me get this straight my child who is in 1st grade can not have a holiday party or decorate the room with red and green BUT you want us to sell at least 20 items in that catalog??? Something doesn't make sense here does it???!!! Well I tell ya I will not sell anything next year and hope many follow...You can't make money off the holiday we can't celebrate.
|
DToney Member
|
Posted: Oct 17th, 2006 12:16 am |
|
they sent home fund raisers the 1st day of school at one of our schools...
____________________ I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that don't work. - Thomas Edison
|
Cracker Jax Member
Joined: | Oct 23rd, 2005 |
Location: | Summerfield, USA |
Posts: | 4722 |
Status: |
Offline
|
Mana: | |
|
Posted: Oct 17th, 2006 01:12 am |
|
kidwell wrote: Hey everyone,
Did anyone else think of the fact that we are sent home a fundraiser within the first month of school...Well the inside of that catalog is full of Christmas stuff, plenty of red and green, santas, snowmen, angels , etc...Now let me get this straight my child who is in 1st grade can not have a holiday party or decorate the room with red and green BUT you want us to sell at least 20 items in that catalog??? Something doesn't make sense here does it???!!! Well I tell ya I will not sell anything next year and hope many follow...You can't make money off the holiday we can't celebrate.
WELCOME TO THE FORUM KIDWELL!!!!!
You make a good point there, but you gotta remember that the new policy is a GC Schools policy and the fundraisers are PTA fundraisers. Two separate entities. Plus if you don't participate in fundraisers, it only hurts our kids... not the staff or the school system who made the policy to begin with.
Glad you've joined us!!!
____________________ Opinions in this post are mine. Do not copy, distribute, mass mail or quote out of context without my consent.
|
Current time is 02:34 pm | Page: 1 2 3 4 5 |
|